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Know Yourself Before You Know AI

January 20265 min read
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The real reason people are “skilling up in AI” this year is to stay ahead of their colleagues or competitors.

But the bad news is, only a few will succeed. Here's why.

You sit down at your desk. You place your tea or coffee confidently next to your keyboard and open your AI of choice. Your fingers fly across the keys and bang, you get an answer to your prompt.

For many of you, the next thought is either: “Excellent, I'll use that.” Or “That answer's not really relevant. I knew this AI stuff was overhyped.”

Here's what to do instead

As you upskill in AI in 2026, keep this front of mind: AI rewards clarity.

Clarity about what you're trying to achieve. Clarity about what you don't yet know. And most importantly, clarity about the assumptions you're bringing into your questions.

So instead of starting and ending your AI ‘upskilling’ with a bucket load of new prompts, start by better understanding yourself.

Create a project called ‘Me’

Name your strengths. Admit your blind spots. And share those thoughts with your AI in a project called ‘Me’.

That way, your AI can understand your unique approach and innate biases to give you your edge.

Initially, this process might feel slow or awkward. You might struggle explaining who you are or admitting your blind spots. This process requires deep introspection.

But if you start your AI upskilling in this way, your AI interactions will be a much better reflection of your unique thinking.

“When everyone has the same access to the knowledge, what sets you apart from everyone else? You! In 2026, your real advantage is not knowing how to use AI. It's knowing what to ask, and why you are asking it.”

How can you use this approach to help you upskill AI this year?

Phil Carey is a speaker and consultant on AI and communication.